Adult Friendships

I have come to the realization that by the time you become an adult, you have transitioned through several friendships and associations. I understand that some friendships are seasonal and their sole purpose is to teach you a lesson that helps you grow into the individual you are destined to be.  I have learned that you are less likely to have that central clique or circle of girlfriends that get together once a month to chat over dinner and share anecdotes about life because each individual's personal life is so busy and demanding. 
While that circle is common and not at all unheard of, it does not describe my life and relationships. I have a small handful of friends, who are not friends with each other. The origin of each of the friendships differs and we all have commonalities between each other, yet I’ve never brought all of them together. I don’t know why, but I am sure I will soon. I also understand and appreciate that each of these friendships add to my life in a different way and I’d like to believe that I add to each of theirs.

What have I learned about friendships over the years?

1.      True friendships last. A disagreement here or there won’t break you.

2.      Friendships go through phases.

3.      Friendships vary. Your role in each friendship may differ.

4.      Friendships don’t require a lot of maintenance. Your relationship is not in trouble if you don’t communicate every day.

5.      Friendships are seasonal. You may have a good friendship in someone that eventually drifts apart. It’s okay.