I am now
pushing my mid-30s and I have just discovered that in order for me to be happy I
need to become more independent. Now in many aspects of my life I am extremely
independent. I have a job that provides an income that allows me to support
myself; I pay my own rent; I recently paid off my car loan; I can make all of
the purchases that I want without having to consult anyone; I make my own decisions without having to
answer or ask permission of anyone. I am the Miss Independent that Neyo spoke
of in his song.
But …

